Episodes

Saturday May 07, 2022
S2, E2 - He’s Got a Bad Case of Loving You
Saturday May 07, 2022
Saturday May 07, 2022
Welcome to the Redd Flags podcast. Join Deb and Greg as they dig into love, sex, and relationship questions from Reddit and attempt to provide helpful advice.
In this episode:
A man is mortified after he gets his testicles scanned by an attractive technician and gets an erection.
A woman is concerned after she and her husband meet a woman who only seems to be interested in being friends with him.
A man struggles with how to tell his wife that despite her passion for playing music, she doesn’t have what it takes to make a career out of it.
A man who paid for his wife’s family to go on vacation is upset when his wife requests that he not drink alcohol in order to appease her sister’s boyfriend who is a recently recovered alcoholic.
Disaster of the week: A woman wants to know if she is the asshole for outing her fiance as a liar to his entire family and friends at his 25th birthday party.

Saturday Apr 30, 2022
S2, E1- Weaponized Incompetence
Saturday Apr 30, 2022
Saturday Apr 30, 2022
Welcome to the Redd Flags podcast. Join Deb and Greg as they dig into love, sex, and relationship questions from Reddit and attempt to provide helpful advice.
In this episode:
Deb and Greg discuss Only Fans and how it has created a gray area in a lot of relationships. Is it just porn? Is consuming it while in a relationship cheating? Do we want our porn to be more ethical and is Only Fans the way?
A woman is upset because she feels like the way her husband tore open a box of dryer sheets is an example of weaponized incompetence.
A man feels bothered by an expensive piece of lingerie in his closet that his wife wore for a previous partner.
A woman who recently discovered that her teenage son is gay doesn’t know what to do after she received a call from his school letting her know that he is suspended for beating up a guy student.
A woman wants to know if it is time to move on after accidentally reading a message from her boyfriend to his best friend that said he wished he had slept with an old female acquaintance.
Disaster of the week: A man wants to know how to approach his wife to let her know that he is afraid that her trans brother will try to turn their toddler trans.

Thursday Apr 14, 2022
S1, E10 - No One Humps Like Gaston (Season Finale)
Thursday Apr 14, 2022
Thursday Apr 14, 2022
Welcome to the Redd Flags podcast. Join Deb and Greg as they dig into love, sex, and relationship questions from Reddit and attempt to provide helpful advice.
In this episode:
Deb and Greg tease some upcoming things happening in Season 2 and play a few rounds of Where Should We Begin, a card game designed by the relationship and sex guru Esther Perel. We will be giving away a free copy of the game on an upcoming podcast, stay tuned for more details.
A woman is sick of her boyfriend’s unusual kink which is, himself.
A woman who doesn’t want kids becomes pregnant soon after an argument with her husband where he reveals he has changed his mind about being childfree.
A woman in a newly opened relationship has already violated the terms of their agreement and wants to know the best way for her to come clean.
A man is conflicted about his marriage after he learns that his wife is in love with another man when a bombshell is dropped at a friendly dinner party.

Wednesday Apr 06, 2022
S1, E9 - Toyz II Men
Wednesday Apr 06, 2022
Wednesday Apr 06, 2022
Welcome to the Redd Flags podcast. Join Deb and Greg as they dig into love, sex, and relationship questions from Reddit and attempt to provide helpful advice.
In this episode:
Deb and Greg discuss the slap heard around the world and the odd obsession with Will and Jada Smith's non-monogamous relationship.
A man in an 8 year relationship has lost attraction to his wife and isn’t sure how to handle it.
A man wants to know if what he did is cheating after an impromptu threesome goes terribly wrong.
A woman asks if it’s ok to require your spouse or partner to have locations (tracking) turned on their phone.
A man is walked in on by his girlfriend while using a fleshlight and she is now accusing him of cheating and thinks that he is disgusting.
A woman wants to know what to say to her boyfriend after she found out that he has been sending nude photos of her to his friend without her consent.

Wednesday Mar 30, 2022
S1, E8 - Her Guacamole Brings All the Girls to the Yard
Wednesday Mar 30, 2022
Wednesday Mar 30, 2022
Welcome to the Redd Flags podcast. Join Deb and Greg as they dig into love, sex, and relationship questions from Reddit and attempt to provide helpful advice.
In this episode:
Deb and Greg discuss flying and the heavy burden of being in the emergency aisle.
A woman is upset when a man she has recently started dating finds it troubling that she still communicates with her exes.
A 17 year old boy is worried that he messed up his relationship by asking his girlfriend to get STD tested.
A man bought his son an expensive birthday gift and he is worried that it might hurt his ex-wife's feelings.
A woman disagrees with her husband who says he "doesn't believe in make-up sex."
A woman who prides herself on making fantastic guacamole wants to know if she is the asshole for telling a girl she met at a friend's house "I don't even know you" when she requested to try some of her delicious green goop.

Wednesday Mar 23, 2022
S1, E7 - WHAT DOES IT DO?!
Wednesday Mar 23, 2022
Wednesday Mar 23, 2022
Welcome to the Redd Flags podcast. Join Deb and Greg as they dig into love, sex, and relationship questions from Reddit and attempt to provide helpful advice.
In this episode:
Deb and Greg discuss the “no fap” movement which started on reddit almost a decade ago.
A woman’s boyfriend feels that he is entitled to a portion of her much larger tax refund.
A man feels distraught after an attempted threesome with his girlfriend and a male friend ends up with him on the sidelines watching.
A woman wants to know if it’s a red or yellow flag that her boyfriend of 1 month doesn’t want her to adopt a dog even though he has one of his own.
A woman struggles with her boyfriend's awkward sexy talk.
Disaster of the Week: A woman wants to know if she is an asshole for not leaving her friend’s house when her friend’s husband asked her to leave.

Wednesday Mar 16, 2022
S1, E6 - If Pillow Walls Could Talk (with special guest Dave)
Wednesday Mar 16, 2022
Wednesday Mar 16, 2022
Welcome to the Redd Flags podcast. Join Deb and Greg as they dig into love, sex, and relationship questions from Reddit and attempt to provide helpful advice.
In this episode:
Deb and Greg bring on their first guest ever, Dave! Deb and Dave dated twice in a 20 year span and are still good friends. After a short interview, Dave hangs out and helps tackle some interesting topics like co-sleeping with partners, biphobia, and monogamy in non-heteronormative relationships.
A woman who is a wild sleeper gets offended when her fiancé puts up a pillow wall between them every night.
A woman with a secret cuckold/hotwife fetish desperately wants to get over her kink as she fears upsetting her husband and causing problems to their marriage.
A gay man wonders if monogamy is dead in the gay community or if there are other guys out there that share his desire for exclusive physical and emotional connection.
A bisexual man asks if any of his peers have experienced a straight woman friend treating them like a "gay best friend."
A 28 year old woman is distraught after her boyfriend of two years is having second thoughts about wanting to get married and have kids.

Thursday Mar 10, 2022
S1, E5 - Sex, Lies, and Polygraph Tests
Thursday Mar 10, 2022
Thursday Mar 10, 2022
Welcome to the Redd Flags podcast. Join Deb and Greg as they dig into love, sex, and relationship questions from Reddit and attempt to provide helpful advice.
In this episode:
Deb and Greg discuss the public divorce of Kim Kardashian and Kanye West and how bizarre it is to have something so personal take place in public.
A woman's husband is undergoing some significant changes to his lifestyle and she is struggling to see how she fits in with his new outlook.
A man finds out that the woman he is dating used to be a sex worker and has slept with thousands of partners.
A teenage boy learns that when he was 5 years old his aunt was killed in a horrific accident while trying to save him and feels like he is to blame.
A husband laughs at his wife's attempt to initiate sex after more than a year of no intimacy.
Disaster of the Week: A Redditor finds a post from his girlfriend expressing that she has a crush on a co-worker and is considering acting on it.

Monday Feb 28, 2022
S1, E4 - Liquid Chalk and Endless Pizza Nights
Monday Feb 28, 2022
Monday Feb 28, 2022
Welcome to the Redd Flags podcast. Join Deb and Greg as they dig into love, sex, and relationship questions from Reddit and attempt to provide helpful advice.
In this episode:
Deb and Greg discuss the Netflix documentary The Tinder Swindler.
A married woman with all the finer things in life hates her rich lifestyle and wants to break the news to her husband.
A man considers whether or not it would be ok for him to ask out his yoga instructor who he believes is flirting with him.
A man is thinking of ending his 2 year relationship now that his girlfriend is obsessed with bouldering and is spending a large amount of her time at the bouldering gym, often with other men.
A man and his wife enjoy when she wears a certain sexy outfit and wonder if they should feel guilty about it.
Disaster of the Week: A mother heads to Reddit to ask if she is an asshole for calling her college age daughter a bad person after she refused to attend family functions three nights in a row.

Monday Feb 21, 2022
S1, E3 - Messing with Nosy Mother-in-Law
Monday Feb 21, 2022
Monday Feb 21, 2022
Welcome to the Redd Flags podcast. Join Deb and Greg as they dig into love, sex, and relationship questions from Reddit and attempt to provide helpful advice.
In this episode:
A woman wants to know if she is an asshole for leaving embarrassing notes around her house for her snooping mother-in-law to find.
Another woman wants to know if it is normal for her boyfriend to fantasize about other women.
A man wants his wife who works from home to take care of the kids and have dinner ready when he gets home from work.
Another man’s girlfriend dropped a bomb on him that she wants to try an open relationship and now he doesn’t know how to move forward.
A woman’s husband drunkenly admits that he settled for her because his first choice was unavailable and wishes he could have gotten back together with his ex.